To everyone here who is ever so subtly conveying that a mother's love is far more greater than a wife's love, I feel sorry. Because all you have in your head as a image of a wife is a woman who likes you for your monetary contributions to her life. That's the image that television and few jokes of fed up husbands have put up there.
A mother's love for her child is primal. That's the strongest pull nature will make you feel for someone because survival of your kin is more important to it than anything else. You came out of her, no matter how ugly you look, she will find you beautiful because you are in a way a part of her. You are her creation.
Whereas, a wife is not biologically linked to you. She's not your blood. Yet, she'll love you. She doesn't has to love you with intensity but yet she does because she WANTS to. Not because she HAS to. A mother has to love her child because there will be no one else to do that for her child apart from her. Moreover, no lady wants to be infamous for being a degraded mother. No one can love you like your wife because out of all the men in the world, she chose you. Your mother didn't have that choice, she had to love whoever she got as her child. She would have loved even your neighbour only if he/she was her child.
A wife will keep you satisfied in every possible way she can. She'll keep you happy in the bedroom, in the dining room, in the living room, even in the balcony. Remember, because she wants to and not because she has to. So easily few people are saying that if a wife isn't nice, she can be replaced. Don't you think she knows that? You can't replace your mother, so she knows that no matter what you'll come back to her. So imagine a wife's constant fear of rejection given the fact that her husband thinks she's replaceable. What a shame!
If you want good wives, ask your mothers to raise their daughters well. Because if only you think a wife is shitty, its partly because a mother didn't do everything she had to in raising her. And to all those men who crack all kinds of insensitive jokes on their wife, remember she's waiting for you back home because she wants to. Not because she has to. Even women thinking that a mother is greater than a wife, do you whole heatedly accept that your husband seeing you beneath his mother is okay for you?
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